Darlene's Dogs: A story of hope and help

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An inauspicious begining:

Special education teacher, Darlene Gosnell, had her life and career changed by a drunk driver one night after a head on collision. Darlene’s injuries were so severe that when she was finally released from the hospital she needed a dog to keep her mobile, guide her and remind her to take her medications.

Molly

As Darlene continued with her own rehab, other rehab patients would play with and enjoy Darlene’s cairn terrier and personal pet/therapist, “Molly.” Darlene’s own rehab took nearly 2 years. During that time Darlene experienced first hand the benefit of a pet/therapist. She and her doctors also saw how others benefited as well. With her doctors’ encouragement and no longer able to teach because of her brain injuries, she began a two year process of establishing TheraPets of Indiana, Inc.

Drugs or dogs?

Adam is one of Darlene’s biggest fans. Adam was born with a compromised immune system. As a result he is frequently ill and too frequently hospitalized. Adam and his parents are enthusiastic about their experience with TheraPets.

“I like the dogs and they help me to not be scared. It is a lot easier to go to the hospital when the dogs are there” says Adam, now 11, recalling the surgery he had at age 8 to have a heart port put in so his medicine could be directly injected into his heart. It was a scary procedure for the whole family but with the dogs there it was a lot easier.

Adam & Molly

“I still remember sitting there waiting for the doctors to take him into surgery when these two dogs came around the corner. As soon as Adam saw them his eyes lit up and his countenance totally changed,” recalls Adam’s mom, Theresa. “He was able to relax and the whole procedure went much more smoothly. When we are at other hospitals, they have to sedate Adam to help him calm down, but when he has a dog, he can just sit there and pet the dog. It is such a blessing.”

In fact, the dogs are a blessing to hundreds of patients. They are even able to ride into surgery with patients. Once the patient is under anesthesia the dogs are removed from the operating room. When the patient is coming out of the anesthesia, the dogs are there on the bed making the transition much more peaceful.

Mac, a dog who knows:

Many times when a patient is in hospice or the hospital and about to die “Mac” is there offering comfort to the person and family. “Mac” is a bereavement dog. When the person is about to die, “Mac” will fold his paws and rest his head on the patient. It is truly remarkable.

Darlene lives in a small, unassuming ranch in Fishers, Indiana, with anywhere from 4 to 15 rescue dogs. It is from here that Darlene runs TheraPets. Many of the dogs (23 in total) stay with doctors or other foster families, so Darlene’s house is not always full of clamor. She gets her dogs from a local breeder or she rescues them from shelters to give them a new life, even as she now lives a new life.

TheraPets HQ

To look at her house one wouldn’t know that the occupants face death, injury, disaster and suffering on a daily basis. Darlene and her little terriers don’t look like the type you would see mobilized by the National Guard, working alongside FEMA personnel or roaming the halls of a hospital. Yet she and her mighty army of little cairn terriers and west highland terriers, known as “westies” are stalwart in the face of tragedy.

Bringing peace to tragedy:

Recently, the police called on Darlene and her dogs. A couple of men had broken into the home of immigrants and tried to rape the daughter. As the father fought off the assailants, his daughter escaped. The father was severely beaten for his intervention. Adding insult to injury, his wife was then brutally raped in front of him. The wife spoke only Spanish and was distraught to say the least. The presence of the dog was a great comfort to the woman. As she sat there stroking the dog, she was able to calm down and talk about her ordeal.

Darlene and her TheraPets are a great example of the type of people who make up the fiber of a community: unsung heroes who selflessly care for the needs of the hurting, the victims, the forgotten, and the people who, while most of us are working and going about our normal routine, are facing the fragility of life.

Other fun and/or helpful links:
Fishers, Google Video
TheraPets on FaceBook (Maybe Mac will get on Twitter someday!)

Special thanks to Darlene Gosnell, Adam and his family, and boost media entertainment

Scrooge Nation: could welfare be eroding community?

Growing up I really did not like Charles Dickens' novel, A Christmas Carol. All I could see was a grumpy, mean old man with regrets and yes, a scary ghost or two. To my young mind this was not the stuff of Christmas. I am glad to say that over the years I have matured and learned to appreciate A Christmas Carol and would even name it among my favorites.

Early in the novel, Ebenezer Scrooge is approached by two fellow businessmen and asked to make a donation to the local orphanage. You may recall Scrooge's response, "No." Do you recall his rationale? He reasons away his lack of charity because he pays taxes. Since the government takes a part of his tax to help fund the orphanage, he has already made a contribution.

Do you know when American giving was at it's apex?

*During the Great Depression. Yup, when people had the least amount to give, they gave the most. Is it possible that the sense of community, caring for one's neighbor and bearing each other's burdens led to charity on the micro level? In other words, people were giving locally in order to care for their community, more specifically the people in their community.

Is it also not possible that the growth of the welfare state has contributed to the decrease in charitable giving because like Scrooge we, as a nation, view our taxes in part as a charitable contribution?

Additionally, I wonder if welfare implies that the government is caring for my neighbor and I am in turn absolved from my responsibility to my neighbor. In a sense, I have "subcontracted" my responsibility to the government. This article by Arthur C. Brooks seems to confirm that idea.

As "Soaps" said in response to the first blog about community, "When I am my brother's keeper n he is my keeper Community happens :)"


I am not advocating a total stop to welfare, nor is this intended to become a political post and debate. Rather the focus is on community.


What do you think? Is it possible that welfare enables a conscious, or even subconscious, abdication of our duty/responsibility to our neighbor and community? Might another unintended, and ironic consequence be the weakening of community and a strengthening of classism?


As always I look forward to your comments.




* I have been looking for this stat but can not find it. If anyone has this verified lease let us know. I know I have read that as a percentage of personal income people gave just over 3%, now people give on average less than 3%.